Monday, February 13, 2012

How to Make a Date With an Escort

So I came across this article just now and found it very interesting. I ought to write up something similar that pertains to how Members should act with Cam Models.

How to Make a Date With an Escort over the Phone

So you've decided to spend time with an escort, but now what? Your first call can be nerve-wracking, and you don't want to creep the woman out! Follow the steps below to make things easier on yourself, and on your potential date.


Preparing to call

  1. Be as calm as you can, and try to be yourself. Most escorts are professionals, and aren't going to judge you for having normal human emotions like anxiety. Remember, she's human, too.
  2. Review the laws in your area and make sure you aren't breaking any.
  3. Read the escort's ad, website and any additional information she has provided. It's there for a reason, and reading it can save you from uncomfortable rejections if you and the escort are not on the same page.
  4. Make sure you know her phone number AND her name. Calling her and asking "which one are you again" will not impress her.
  5. Check her hours before calling. A daytime escort will not be happy to speak to you at 4am.
  6. Consider your reasons for calling an escort. Do you want a romantic relationship? Do you expect to be allowed to hurt her or treat her like a blowup doll? Do you just want to talk dirty on the phone? Are you trying to get caught and make your wife jealous? She will not tolerate any of this behavior.


Making the call

  1. Take a deep breath, smile, think of something nice about yourself, and dial. Remember that most escorts won't answer a blocked number.
  2. When she answers, say calmly and confidently "hi, my name is (whatever). Is this (whoever)?" If it's an agency, you will end up speaking to a booking agent, so you may have to adapt this advice accordingly. If it's the escort, keep smiling.
  3. Tell her you saw her ad, and where and that you'd like to talk about making an appointment.Do not ask her What's up? Talk to her as you would other professional service providers.
  4. Ask her about anything you aren't clear on, but don't make her repeat every bit of information on her website. She has limited time and expects you to be able to read.
  5. When asking about possible activities, avoid vague code words. Your idea of a particular style of encounter may be different from hers. Instead, ask specifically if she enjoys the activities you want to try, or ask if there's anything she doesn't want to do. Don't try to argue about her answer, or bribe her to change her mind.
  6. Ask her if she's free at the particular time you want to get together. Don't make her choose when- she has no idea what your schedule is like. If she can accommodate you, she will. If not, she will suggest the closest time that works for her.
  7. Be sure to give her your full name, address and phone number or hotel room number. She will want to verify them to make sure it is not a prank call and that she can let someone know where she is. If you're meeting at her place, don't be pushy for her exact address. Remember that she doesn't know you yet and doesn't want to end up in the uncomfortable situation of you showing up early, or stopping by in the middle of the night. She wants to earn an income, so she isn't likely to leave you hanging. Just be patient.
  8. You will probably have to call one more time to let her know you are close and ready to come see her. Or, if you're meeting at your place, she will call you.
  9. Remember that she invests time and money in getting ready, driver and/or security fees, and reserving her time for you. If your appointment is still several hours away, and you change your mind, call and cancel. Explain your reason politely, and apologise. If you are at her door or just minutes away, tell her politely that you've changed your mind, and pay for the first half hour or her driver's fee, plus some money for her time. Don't hurt her feelings or stiff her, unless you'd like being treated that way at your job.
  10. Have fun, be a gentleman, and be safe!


  • She's not judging you on your body, your age or how well you perform. All she cares about is how you treat her personally, and escorts in general.
  • Chances are she likes her job. Most escorts do and slavery is as rare in this industry as it is in any other. If you have very solid evidence that she is not there willingly, pay her, apologize and leave. Slavery is a crime and should be reported, but assuming that the escort cannot make adult decisions about her job is very disrespectful.
  • Be funny, if that's among your qualities. Girls like funny guys.
  • The steps sound long, but it's mostly things to know. The actual call should be less than five minutes.


  • If you break the law, be prepared to pay the consequences. If you think the law is unconstitutional, contact someone in your government to let them know you support changing it.
  • Meeting a stranger is risky. Be aware of your surroundings and any warnings about dangerous situations.
  • Most escorts don't work without safeguards and the police are becoming more and more responsive to complaints by escorts. If your goal is to cause a dangerous situation, she will protect herself.
  • Not all escorts' photos are real. You might like her anyway, but remember to be realistic.


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bf_of_an_escort said...

Chances are she likes her job. Most escorts do ...

That is bullshit... There are not many that like it... most are just in it because they need the money...

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