Summer Girlfriends Get Away

So I had this vision of something I really want to do with my girlfriends this summer, and I want to share this idea with all of you ladies because I think it would be such a fun thing that maybe you all might want to try something like this as well. I think this will be great for the body and mind and every woman should do this once in a while. What I'm talking about is somewhat of a Spa Day. Only I'm not talking about going out to one of those expensive day spas. 

First off, when it comes to stuff like facials, hair masques, ect... I've always preferred the DIY way.
For the most part, I really don't like store bought products that have a bunch of additives in them. I like all natural made from fresh ingredients. Not to mention it saves on money!

So here's my idea...

I want to take an overnight trip to Lake Tahoe with my girlfriends. When we get there we can enjoy relaxing and sun bathing on the beach.

 

This would also be an opportune time to get some sexy photo sets done as well.

Might even try getting some exercise in by hiking or biking the Flume Trail, which circles around the Lake, with gorgeous views of the water. There's also paddle boarding as well.

 

Where to stay?

Well I used to always stay at the Best Western every time I went to Tahoe when I was a kid. Just a 3 minute walk from the lake, they provide FREE breakfast and it's located in a restaurant with an actual menu selection not that continental stuff you serve yourself. Outdoor pool to get some laps in and a hot tub to relax in as well. It's also very inexpensive.

So after a day of getting in touch with nature, working on our tans, and a little exercise, it's time to soak in the Jacuzzi for a bit. Letting the hot water and the jets relax the muscles.
 
What to do in the evening?

If your girlfriends also happen to be camgirls as well, you can always take advantage of Best Western's FREE WIFI and do a Multi Girl Cam Show and make some money!

As we all know, the more girls on cam, the more traffic your chat room will get! I've always made money any time I cam with another girl.

Advertise to your fans ahead of time to really get the most out of your show!
 

 

But what if your girlfriends don't cam or maybe you want this to be an actual break from work? What else is there to do?

When I was a kid, we used to go get dinner at Harvey's restaurant located on the 19th floor. It had great food and a beautiful view. But the wait was a bit long to be seated, and it was also a bit pricey. It's definitely a great place to go, but I think I would want to try somewhere I haven't been yet.

THE OPAL NIGHT CLUB
This looks like a place I'd like to check out.
Full bar, dance floor, smoking allowed, Friday nights Ladies drink FREE all night, Saturdays Ladies get in FREE until midnight. 

 

There's also plenty of casinos to try our luck at as well.

We can try out some of my home made sugar scrubs, face and hair masks and watch a little TV or a movie before going to bed. 

Finally, we'll enjoy our FREE breakfast the next morning at Best Western's lovely restaurant before heading back.

Anyways, that's just a little fun idea I would like to make happen this summer. What about you? Is there something you'd like to do with just you and your BFFs this summer? Do you have any suggestions on where to go for an awesome girlfriend get away. If so please share in the comments section.

COCONUT OIL: THE BEST STUFF EVER!

Many of us know that coconut oil is great for use in the kitchen, it's...

• Great for baking, stir-frys or as a dairy free replacement to butter.
• As a coffee creamer when emulsified into coffee
• In homemade Mayo without the high PUFA vegetable oils
• As a replacement for vegetable oils in any recipe or in cooking
• To season cast iron skillets

But did you know that it's also...
HEALTHY FOOD FOR BRAIN, ENERGY, & WEIGHT LOSS

• Mix a tablespoon with a tablespoon of chia seeds for an all-day energy boost (do NOT take this at night!)
• Use to make coconut cream concentrate for a brain boosting snack
• Can help speed weight loss when consumed daily
• Is an immediate source of energy when eaten that isn’t stored as fat
• It’s high Lauric acid and MCFA content helps boost metabolism
• To support healthy thyroid function
• In healthy brain boosting snack like Coconut Clusters
• In a filling and energy boosting Brain Power Smoothie
• Can help improve insulin levels
• Added to foods or drinks daily for energy
• There is some evidence that regular ingestion of coconut oil can help prevent or reverse Alzheimers

Here's More Uses for Coconut Oil You May Not Know about...

CLEANING

• In homemade soap for laundry

NATURAL PESTICIDE

• With apple cider vinegar as a natural treatment for lice that actually works
• In Homemade Natural Bug-Off Lotion Bars
• Mixed with catnip, rosemary, or mint essential oils as a natural bug repellent

HYGIENE

• By itself as a natural deodorant
• By itself or with baking soda as a naturally whitening toothpaste

SKIN CARE & BEAUTY

• To help increase sun tolerance and avoid burning
• As a naturally SPF 4 sunscreen
• By itself as a great tanning oil
• On cuticles to help nails grow
• Many use it as an anti-aging facial moisturizer
• On hands after doing dishes to avoid dry skin
• Can help resolve acne when used regularly
• Can be rubbed into scalp daily to stimulate hair growth
• Mixed with salt to remove dry skin on feet
• Rub into elbows daily to help alleviate dry, flaky elbows
• To help avoid chlorine exposure when swimming
• As a natural shave cream and after shave lotion
• When used consistently on skin it can help get rid of cellulite
• Can help reduce appearance of varicose veins
• As an incredibly intensive natural conditioner- Rub into dry hair, put a shower cap on and leave for several hours
• Mixed with equal parts sugar for a smoothing body scrub (use in the shower)
• Rubbed on lips as a natural chap stick
• A tiny dab rubbed on your hands and then through hair will help get rid of frizz
• Can help sooth psoriasis or eczema
• As an eye-makeup remover
• To lighten age spots when rubbed directly on the skin
• To prevent stretch marks during pregnancy
• On the skin as a basic lotion (or coconut oil lotion bar)

MEDICINAL

• A tablespoon melted into a cup of warm tea can help sooth a sore throat
• To help sooth the itch of chicken pox or poison ivy
• Can be used internally and externally to speed recovery from UTIs
• In a salve for cracked heels
• Can relieve the pain of hemorrhoids when used topically
• Naturally clears up cold sores
• It’s anti-inflammatory properties can help lessen arthritis
• Can reduce the itch of mosquito bites
• Blend a tablespoon into hot tea to help speed recovery from cold or flu
• After initial heat is gone, can help speed healing of sunburn
• Rub coconut oil on the inside of your nose to help alleviate allergy symptoms
• Topically, can help skin heal faster after injury or infection
• Topically to kill yeast or yeast infections

MENTAL HEALTH

• Can help improve sleep when taken daily
• Some evidence shows that the beneficial fats in coconut oil can help with depression and anxiety

SEXUAL

• As a tropical massage oil
• As a natural personal lubricant that won’t disturb vaginal flora

 A big thank you to Katie of Wellness Mama for sourcing the majority of the info in this post on her wonderful blog

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I moved into a haunted apartment, and I have the proof on video

Yes that's right. I didn't want to say anything about it at first, because I didn't want people thinking I was a "crack pot". But ever since I moved into my new apartment, more and more strange things have been happening. The sensation of hands feeling me up and down my body in the middle of the night when I'm all alone. Then, I started waking up in the mornings completely naked, even though I would go to bed wearing a T shirt and panties. I decided I wanted to know just what was happening to me while I was asleep at night. So a few nights ago, I set up my web cam to record me while I slept... The footage I watched the next morning was both terrifying yet totally erotic.  

Slactivism at it's Best!

(Original post by Amy on ProvidingSupport.com)

We all shop at Amazon...don't try to deny it! And anyone who has made a purchase recently knows they are doing this wonderful charitable match thing now where you can select a charity to receive .5% of your total purchases as a donation from Amazon every quarter. Well, Sex Workers Outreach Project has just become one of those charities! If you don't know SWOP, check out www.swopusa.org or http://swopbay.org/ . Our local chapter has worked hard to help everyone affected by the MyRedBook closure, speaks out against shaming and john schools, and continues to do street-based outreach programs to help the least fortunate of us. If you would like to have your .5% go towards an organization that actively helps YOU and your community, you can follow these simple instructions!

1.) You (or someone else) buys something on amazon using http://smile.amazon.com or the following link: http://smile.amazon.com/ch/26-2264638

2.) They indicate they want to donate to Sex Workers Outreach Project.

3.) SWOP-National gets .5% of all donations at the end of each quarter!

It's pretty easy, and costs you nothing! Slactivism at it's Best!

~A

New Book Coming Soom.

I just finished my first chapter.

This will be an easy to read manual with plenty of pictures and guides.

I won't guarantee that this book will raise your camscore thousands of points within a few months, or that in reading this you'll be in the top 20 on MFC in no time. But what I can promise you, is that I'll be honest in everything I've learned in my years of cam modeling, and give credit and special thanks to all of those I've learned from. 

Applying Sales and Marketing Stategies from Vanilla Sources

Researching, studying, and learning from sites like AmberCutie Forum, StripperWeb, and WeCamgirls is a definite must for women who want to be successful in our line of work. But it's important for us to remember that we can still learn very important information from vanilla sources as well. Although not specifically catering to those of us in the "Adult Entertainment" industry, there are still a lot of good blogs, forums, and even books that cover the subjects of sales, marketing, and just overall life/people skills that can and should be applied to any business field as well as all walks of life. 

Here's all of the best vanilla books, forums, and blogs that I can think of at the moment, which feel are a must read. I'll update this post as I remember and/or discover more. If you know of something I should add to this list, please let me know in the comments section:

Vader Doll Video is almost Ready

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DARTH VADER SEX VIDEO AVAILABLE TODAY!

Just wanted to announce my new video, I just finished editing it, and it's available TODAY!

This video is HALF PRICE for everyone with a VIP membership to "My Secret Diary"
200 token tip on MFC for non-members, 100 token tip for VIPs.

 

The video with my Vader Doll will be available for FREE on my private bdsm blog "My Secret Diary" when it's all ready.

Life Hacking: TRICKS TO SAVE MONEY

Well this post isn't just sex worker related, it can be applied to anyone, but I felt this advice should be shared on my blog anyways.

Info comes from teendayz.com

Here's a list of some tricks that you might not know about that will save you money:

Compress Your Data
If you don't have unlimited data on your phone, you probably live in fear of overage charges. Give yourself a little breathing room by downloading the free app Onavo. It compresses the data you use and tracks where you use your data so you can see where you use the most and adjust your habits accordingly.

How to Shop for Airfare
If you are planning a trip and are searching for airfare online, be sure to clear your browser history before looking up prices for flights. It has been discovered that sites will actually raise their prices if they can see that you are actively searching for flights! You can save about $50 on flights using this method.

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OMG you won't believe what happened

My friend who has been apprenticing me to be a poker dealer, just came over and told me the craziest shit.

His wife went into labor last night, and with not enough time to make it out to the hospital, he delivered a 6 and a half pound baby girl in the bathroom of his apartment. Apparently, they didn’t even know she was pregnant until like a month ago. It’s rare, but sometimes women continue to have their periods several month into their pregnancy. (My mom did when she was pregnant with me actually.) Plus his wife is a big girl, so it’s not like you could really tell by looking at her that she was pregnant.

Is that crazy or what? I used to watch that TV show called “I Didn’t Know I was Pregnant” on TLC all the time, but I never would have thought that something like that would actually happen to a close friend of mine.

Well anyways, sense this was so unexpected, they were totally unprepared. They have almost no baby items, and they are on a very fixed income.

I set up an Amazon Wish List for them, so if anyone would like to help out my very good friend and Poker Dealer Teacher by getting something from the list, as my way of saying thanks, I’ll give you LIFE TIME membership to my Private Blog “My Secret Diary” absolutely FREE! (If you already have a membership to my blog, then I’ll make you a 10 minute custom video instead!)

Name of the Wish List is “Miracle Baby”
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Where to buy bras for small breasts

I did not write this article, but I found it to be so helpful, that I thought it should be re-posted.
OP can be found here: http://extrasmall.me/fashion/breasts/where-to-buy-bras-for-small-breasts

First of all, let's start at the beginning. In order to wear the right bra, you need to know your bra size.
If you're not sure whether you're an AAA, AA, A, B -  you can use this international bra calculator to find out, or use this chart for small breast sizes, by  EvesApples Lingerie.
Even if you think you know your bra size, double check - they say the majority of women wear the wrong bra size! And it will be a lot more difficult to find a comfortable and flattering small bra if you're not wearing the right size.By Pelpina | Published: August 3, 2011

On the lookout for a cute bra that will fit your small breasts? Trying to find something that won't make your chest look flat? You're not alone!

Bra Size: AA cup? A cup? B cup?
Best Websites To Shop for Small Bras

But even if you know your bra size, it can be challenging to find the right bra - especially if you have small breasts.
A great way to get around this is to shop online. I'll start a list of websites that sell small bras here. If you know of any more websites who specialize in lingerie for small breasts, let me know - and I'll add it to the list! Please also let me know of any experience (good or bad) you've had with the products sold on these websites - I want to make sure I'm giving you all the best advice!

Small Lingerie: Lulalu
One of the best websites out there dedicated to small bras is lulalu.com - this website specializes in petite lingerie, and their slogan is 'small is beautiful.' They specialize in AAA, AA, and A cup bras.

 

Lingerie for Small Breasts: The Little Bra Company

The Little Bra Company

I love 'The Little Bra Company' because they not only sell small bras - they have a great online presence, are active in social media, create videos AND - they also sell bras in stores around the world!
So that means, you can actually go to a store and get a bra fitted - one of the problems with buying bras online! I just discovered this website, and unfortunately, the closest store is about a 3,5 hour drive for me (Houston), but as soon as I do go to Houston, I'd love to give them a try and review one of their bras. Check out this list - they might have a location near you.

Lingerie for small breasts: AAlingerie
Another good source is aalingerie.com- they also have a wide variety in bras, and mainly sell AA, A, and B cups. They have a lot of different styles, different colors, and different sizes.

 

Small Busted Bras at EvesApples
EvesApples is another site that specifically caters to small busted women.They also have a great bra size calculator, specifically for small breasts. Check it out here.

 

Small bras at Playtex
Also, Playtex makes some very good bra's in uncommon sizes as well. They have 'nearly' sizes if you're just under a size. Their website is a great way to find your bra size - you can even print out a tape measure to calculate your size.

 

Bra-tips for small breasts

• Always wear a bra that fits you well - and wear it the right way.
• Try to wear delicate, small bras that don't overwhelm your petite frame.
• The less fabric, the better. Triangle cups and demi cups will look good on your small breasts. Try to avoid anything that covers up your entire chest, it will make you look flatter.
• Choose bras with thin straps over thick ones.
• Wear bras with patterns, colors, and a feminine look.
• But most importantly: wear a bra that makes you feel comfortable, attractive, and YOU!

And these tips go for a swimsuit/bikini as well!

Great way to drive traffic to your cam shows

Your Independent Cam Shows for Skype, Yahoo, or MSN for just a dollar an ad.

Or just drive more traffic to your chat room on cam sites like Chatterbate, MyFreeCams, Streamate, or LiveJasmin.

Talent Testing Service

I just learned about this website today, and I thought it was worth re-posting.

They have testing facilities all over the United States,  a chart page that shows Facility, Address, Map, Telephone, Office Hours, Draw Fee, Shipping Charge, and Score for each State. Some of their testing facilities are even free of charge.

https://www.talenttestingservice.com/